Love Actually...

Umm..difficult one to write..how I got hold of the topic..well..nothing much, an idle mind wanders..and had watched the movie with the same title recently..

Everyone is kinda after my life .. "Girl get married! "..Year 26 ..it is supposed to be kind of a D-age for girls..OMG !! now what !..no guys..no relationships..what has she been doing all these years..huh..And the cherry on the cake.all my classmates are either married or would be soon.. each of them a love marriage..wow..they are damn lucky I must say..Guys..am so happy for you..spending your life with the one you love ..

Sometimes I wonder, how difficult or easy it is to find that one person..if you r telling me it is easy.. then all I can say is that I haven't figured it out yet because.. nope..my bad..no one has crossed my path so easily..

So, when elders come up with liners like.. "You should have found one'" or "Aren't there good guys in your company" or the latest one- "Take some time out and post your matrimonial profile"..I wonder.. can you find someone so easily..as in are they available at each corner or road turn.. because sometimes with what elders say..they sound like something that is readily available in the market !!

Love is supposed to be one of the best feelings of one's life, for me.. well..I had mentioned this in my very first post..am a girl who loves to dream..and yes..for sure..I have been waiting for the knight in shining armor who would be sweeping me off my feet..not sure if I've been waiting for too long..but does that really matter..

Yeah, I know, if love doesn't bring that special person in my life soon, then I assume that whoever it is that the elders decide on ..would be that special someone..

So..fingers crossed .. and Mr. Special ..u r out there..for God's sake.. stop playing hide and seek..n' show up!

Trust..

Just a 5 lettered word..and yet speaks millions..I just happened to come across this somewhere..can't remember where..& felt like sharing..

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter: "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:"No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. "There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...

Love goes out when mistrust comes in..we live in a world of assumptions as I say..believing only what we see..In such times, our head rules the heart and we end up not trusting people who we call our own..
Billy Wilder has rightly said - "Trust your own instinct. Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else's".

Life is too short to be spent in thinking about insensible things..and wasting time over thoughts that don't matter..Often we say so many things just for the heck of saying overlooking the damaging trail that is left behind..by the time we realize, what is left is the debris of a relationship..

Live every moment..not just for yourself, but also for people who care for you..live selflessly..live it in such a way that years down the line..when you look back..you do it with a smile, without any frets..and fall peacefully into deep slumber..